Here is the advice I got today from a father that packs a lot of meat. Every man devour on this:
YOU CHOOSE THE GIRL, DON’T LET THE GIRL CHOOSE YOU.
This is manhood stuff that you dont see in chick flicks where the girl usually picks the man. The man chooses. The man pursues. The man runs after the girl and not the other way around.
Here is a brotherly advice for women: “Sister – if your pursue the man – you go against the grain of biblical womanhood” Women were created to be pursued and not to be the pursuer. The moment you pursue your man and he bites – you got yourself a GIRLFRIEND.You have deprived the man of your dreams to be a MAN. You have taken out the adventure he needs to go through. You have emasculated him and at the same time shortchange yourself because you pursued the man.